If you’ve been practicing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu for a while, it’s natural that the idea of dating a fellow gym member might have crossed your mind.
But is it a good idea to pursue a romantic relationship with someone from your BJJ gym?
Well, that depends. The key thing is to approach the situation with caution and take things slow.
It’s common for people to get excited about sharing a passion like Jiu-Jitsu with someone they’re dating. The enthusiasm of training together and enjoying the same sport can be thrilling. However, this initial excitement can sometimes lead to quickly forming an attachment based more on shared interests than on a deep understanding of each other.
In these situations, as time passes, you might find that the person isn’t who you thought they were, leading to conflict and complications. The excitement of sharing Jiu-Jitsu can cloud your judgment about the person’s true nature.
The advice here is to really take time to know the person beyond the mats. Understand them for who they are, not just as a training partner. This way, if you decide to pursue a relationship, it’s based on a solid understanding of each other, reducing the chances of unpleasant surprises down the road.
